/bb/, how do you maintain a decent level of self motivation? right now i feel like im sitting in this boring as fuck limbo. since im not afraid to burn bridges, i have hardly any friends. i moved back at home to save myself some money, but i only got hired as seasonal help and have been unemployed since after the holiday season passed. my car died and my mom no longer has one, so between everyone that lives in the house, NONE of them have a car, making job hunting more of a daunting task. i need to get a job, a new car, and go back to school and id like to move into my own place by the summer. i ran out of money i had saved up in the bank so now i cant even afford to keep my phone on anymore. i know what i have to do, but i just cant maintain the level of motivation i need to actually accomplish it all. i think about how much i have to do to get back on my feet and get so overwhelmed that i wind up accomplishing nothing. i know i basically just need to get off my ass, but how do i force myself to?
... what? That's none of the "i should really do more sports" things, here the matter is your fucking life. O:Just imagine what you would think in 20 years if you keep sitting around in your room!
... what? That's none of the "i should really do more sports" things, here the matter is your fucking life. O:
Just imagine what you would think in 20 years if you keep sitting around in your room!
You are now aware of the fact that every girl has or had a b/f already. even the fat ugly ones
You are now aware of the fact that every girl has or had a b/f already.
even the fat ugly ones
>>74168daaaaaammnn you must be fuuugly.
>>74168
daaaaaammnn you must be fuuugly.
>>74169It really doesn't. The whole virgin/whore good/bad dichotomy is dinosaur carried over from medieval times.
>>74169
It really doesn't. The whole virgin/whore good/bad dichotomy is dinosaur carried over from medieval times.
That's because everyone loves singe girls.It's all about supply/demand
That's because everyone loves singe girls.
It's all about supply/demand
im an attractive single female. i just have a natural hatred of people that im sure radiates out of me and is a natural "STAY AWAY" sign. that plus im really introverted and quiet. not too attractive a combo when approaching someone in person i guess.
I bet there would be a lot less singles if all of the /bb/ singles met up
Hey /bb/ I need to ask you something.I am a legal immigrant but my visa doesn't allow me to work, and therefore I am by now totally and 100% broke, save for about 85 cents. I need some tips on how I can scrape together at least $100 dollars so I can either start selling or invest in my friend's dealing.I was also thinking about working under the table, but I don't know how to negotiate something like that.I would like some advice about what to deal if I end up doing that and if I could get deported if I'm caught. I would also like some advice on how to get $100 fast. Thanks in advance.
Hey /bb/ I need to ask you something.
I am a legal immigrant but my visa doesn't allow me to work, and therefore I am by now totally and 100% broke, save for about 85 cents. I need some tips on how I can scrape together at least $100 dollars so I can either start selling or invest in my friend's dealing.I was also thinking about working under the table, but I don't know how to negotiate something like that.
I would like some advice about what to deal if I end up doing that and if I could get deported if I'm caught. I would also like some advice on how to get $100 fast. Thanks in advance.
Yeah, the picture isn't me, I'm male and would probably only prostitute myself to women, but how often does that happen?I'm fairly attractive minus minor acne and kind of big nose though. I could post a picture, but I'm not one for camwhoring.
>>74156Do you think a bank would give out any amounts of loans for foreigners? And I thought you usually needed an investment plan for that.The Ebay/Craigslist thing would probably work out better if I had a credit card and such, but since I wouldn't be able to pay back the amount that I borrowed I generally just don't fuck with that.Begging is a good idea, actually.
sell yourself on craigslist i am sure some fat whale would love to crush your hips
>>74164Do you have any idea how that item return scam works?I need some way to scrape some cash together and FAST
Your first idea is a good one.Ask your dealer for tick (drugs on loan), get enough off him and leave enough time so that you can sell it and make comfortable profit without having to worry about him killing you. Continue this, but be smart about it. Do not promote yourself as a dealer unless you are pretty sure of the contact. You do not want to get busted dealing. Continue doing this until you are asking for such large amounts you have to either work directly with your dealer or go a level up. You'll be making some proper money by now, as long as you're being smart about it. Try and sell bulk to people, people who buy bulk come back, and it means you don't have to do the work.
Your first idea is a good one.
Ask your dealer for tick (drugs on loan), get enough off him and leave enough time so that you can sell it and make comfortable profit without having to worry about him killing you. Continue this, but be smart about it. Do not promote yourself as a dealer unless you are pretty sure of the contact. You do not want to get busted dealing.
Continue doing this until you are asking for such large amounts you have to either work directly with your dealer or go a level up. You'll be making some proper money by now, as long as you're being smart about it. Try and sell bulk to people, people who buy bulk come back, and it means you don't have to do the work.
born with a urological defect 'Bladder Exstropy' thata) gives me a 2 inch penisb) lots of scars on top of penis (like a burn victim but even worse)c) i have to piss 2-6 times an hour after drinking any liquids so can't do movies, road trips, plane rides etc w/o extreme embarrassment d) have been betrayed by every person i ever told this, become a social joke, object of pity, etc25 years old in 2 months, virgin, dropped out of college (community college and 3rd tier state university, whopdie dew, like it would've mattered if i finished anyway), dad has borderline autism and mom is fucked too, dad is in 52 (53?) and still works and makes 6 figures (and is a miser so we KIND OF have money) so i get to life a freestyle life, but ()i have no friends ()and my personality is trash, even with the body of Hercules i would be a virgin and loser. i have spades of learning disabilities too. Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
born with a urological defect 'Bladder Exstropy' thata) gives me a 2 inch penisb) lots of scars on top of penis (like a burn victim but even worse)c) i have to piss 2-6 times an hour after drinking any liquids so can't do movies, road trips, plane rides etc w/o extreme embarrassment d) have been betrayed by every person i ever told this, become a social joke, object of pity, etc
25 years old in 2 months, virgin, dropped out of college (community college and 3rd tier state university, whopdie dew, like it would've mattered if i finished anyway), dad has borderline autism and mom is fucked too, dad is in 52 (53?) and still works and makes 6 figures (and is a miser so we KIND OF have money) so i get to life a freestyle life, but ()i have no friends ()and my personality is trash, even with the body of Hercules i would be a virgin and loser. i have spades of learning disabilities too.
Fluffy kittens and rainbowsYou still alive? Nice job!
a) goto /cd/b) find people who aren't concerned with one's appearance, or are in similar situation?c) Become monk
>>To me most disabled people are either (a) delusional, so they are religious and think god has a plan for them (LOL) or (b) unintelligent, so they don't realize that people pity them rather than actually like them, and they don't understand the diminished value of their relations with other people out of this profound unintelligence.I used to think like this (option B that is, I'm not religious.) I let it ruin middle/high school for me because people at that age are so superficial anyway.Now I'm in college and I realize that nobody cares about physical features that much. Sounds to me like you're carrying around the jealousy a nerd feels toward a jock. I mean, seriously, you're going to off yourself because you're a virgin and embarrassed to go to the bathroom? Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>To me most disabled people are either (a) delusional, so they are religious and think god has a plan for them (LOL) or (b) unintelligent, so they don't realize that people pity them rather than actually like them, and they don't understand the diminished value of their relations with other people out of this profound unintelligence.
I used to think like this (option B that is, I'm not religious.) I let it ruin middle/high school for me because people at that age are so superficial anyway.
Now I'm in college and I realize that nobody cares about physical features that much. Sounds to me like you're carrying around the jealousy a nerd feels toward a jock. I mean, seriously, you're going to off yourself because you're a virgin and embarrassed to go to the bathroom?
Huh, yeah. Ever think about just getting it removed?
Stuff some dildos so far down your throat you can't inhale oxygen at the same time staple and duct tape your nose, and during your last few moments upload pictures onto thread.But before that, cut of your penis and cook it into a stew, and hope that it tastes better then it looks.
Stuff some dildos so far down your throat you can't inhale oxygen at the same time staple and duct tape your nose, and during your last few moments upload pictures onto thread.
But before that, cut of your penis and cook it into a stew, and hope that it tastes better then it looks.
Yo /bb/Ok. My ex-gf treated me like complete shit and when I was with her she engaged in various lewd activities with another guy who thought he was her boyfriend too. She also kind of treated me like she was better than me when I was depressed and this just added to my depressed state. Now.... I do still harbour feelings for her and lately she's been talking to me again and wants to catch up. The other day we got a bit frisky and I fingered her but afterwards I felt really confused about it because I promised myself I would never touch her again.. but I kind of want to. I want to use her as a distraction because I'm also feeling really really strongly for my best mates ex. So I'm probably going to see my ex in the hope that it will keep me distracted from thinking about my mates ex. It would just be temporary because I'm leaving my city in about a month. Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
Yo /bb/Ok. My ex-gf treated me like complete shit and when I was with her she engaged in various lewd activities with another guy who thought he was her boyfriend too. She also kind of treated me like she was better than me when I was depressed and this just added to my depressed state. Now.... I do still harbour feelings for her and lately she's been talking to me again and wants to catch up. The other day we got a bit frisky and I fingered her but afterwards I felt really confused about it because I promised myself I would never touch her again.. but I kind of want to. I want to use her as a distraction because I'm also feeling really really strongly for my best mates ex. So I'm probably going to see my ex in the hope that it will keep me distracted from thinking about my mates ex. It would just be temporary because I'm leaving my city in about a month.
Yeah, your thought process is pretty god damn retarded.
>>74144You're lonely. You want someone to hold and to love. She is the easy option, so naturally you go straight for her. She is likely in the same position, although she is a bitch, she is probably lonely as well. Thats what makes girls cheat, they crave having a male with them, to protect them or to make them feel big or whatever. They may not consciously think that, but thats whats going on in their head.
>>74144
You're lonely. You want someone to hold and to love. She is the easy option, so naturally you go straight for her.
She is likely in the same position, although she is a bitch, she is probably lonely as well. Thats what makes girls cheat, they crave having a male with them, to protect them or to make them feel big or whatever. They may not consciously think that, but thats whats going on in their head.
sup /bb/thinking of doing some blackmail etc.Just need some different thoughts on a matter.So basically. I met this girl last February, we hit it off, I take her virginity, and we're together til' last July. I break it off because she's turned into a bitch towards me, then I disappear from town til' this January. We hook up until the start of this month. Now she's a psycho bitch saying I "should have never been adopted, just aborted" etc. (I have alot of issues dealing with my adoption), and that she fucking hates me, "SHE'S LATE ON HER PERIOD", etc. Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
sup /bb/thinking of doing some blackmail etc.Just need some different thoughts on a matter.
So basically. I met this girl last February, we hit it off, I take her virginity, and we're together til' last July. I break it off because she's turned into a bitch towards me, then I disappear from town til' this January. We hook up until the start of this month. Now she's a psycho bitch saying I "should have never been adopted, just aborted" etc. (I have alot of issues dealing with my adoption), and that she fucking hates me, "SHE'S LATE ON HER PERIOD", etc.
>>74179Forget her. Blackmail often backfires.
>>74179POST PICSLET THE CHANS ENSURE SHE NEVER FORGETS IT HELP OUT YOUR /bb/ROTHERS
>>74179
POST PICS
LET THE CHANS ENSURE SHE NEVER FORGETS IT
HELP OUT YOUR /bb/ROTHERS
duh. hence why every girl I've been with i had to take from another guy. cycle of life.
I think I'm not overly bad looking, and I've had my fair share of 'picking up' (making out with girls). Though, I've only had sex three times; I feel that my lack of confidence - in looks, appearance, penis size etc - is what makes the number so low. I mostly pick up girls when I'm drunk and don't even know how I do it, and usually just go in for a random kiss and they proceed to return.Due to how I'm hating how my personality differs when drunk, and the depression that ensues the next day (a mental hangover), I'm trying to curb my alcohol intake. I tried a lot last night, but ultimately I did have one too many (although not enough to get to that kissing - confident stage). Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I think I'm not overly bad looking, and I've had my fair share of 'picking up' (making out with girls). Though, I've only had sex three times; I feel that my lack of confidence - in looks, appearance, penis size etc - is what makes the number so low. I mostly pick up girls when I'm drunk and don't even know how I do it, and usually just go in for a random kiss and they proceed to return.
Due to how I'm hating how my personality differs when drunk, and the depression that ensues the next day (a mental hangover), I'm trying to curb my alcohol intake. I tried a lot last night, but ultimately I did have one too many (although not enough to get to that kissing - confident stage).
As if we'd know
>>73970OP here. I know there is some that offer some pretty sound advice on this board.
I suffer from both depersonalization disorder, and either type 1 bipolar disorder or schizoaffective disorder ( most psychiatrist say I am borderline schizoaffective so I'm not sure which one would be considered approriate to call me), anyway the medicine used to treat the bipolar/schizoaffective disorder makes the depersonalization worse to the point where I am completely dead on the inside, mainly because whenever I am not having a mood episode I become depersonalized very easily. I can sit down and watch tv, and with in 5 minutes I begin to feel myself falling into an abyss of emptiness. The only ways I've been able to cope with the depersonalization is doing drugs or running around in an extreme adhd like mode(it's taking me forever to write this because I keep switching between webpages/ going downstairs to the kitchen, etc.) A psychologist has said that I am both idiosyncratic and that there is nothing that he can to help me. So I want to ask you /bb/ would you rather choose to be emotionally dead, or to be a scatterbrain manic depressant. Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
I suffer from both depersonalization disorder, and either type 1 bipolar disorder or schizoaffective disorder ( most psychiatrist say I am borderline schizoaffective so I'm not sure which one would be considered approriate to call me), anyway the medicine used to treat the bipolar/schizoaffective disorder makes the depersonalization worse to the point where I am completely dead on the inside, mainly because whenever I am not having a mood episode I become depersonalized very easily. I can sit down and watch tv, and with in 5 minutes I begin to feel myself falling into an abyss of emptiness. The only ways I've been able to cope with the depersonalization is doing drugs or running around in an extreme adhd like mode(it's taking me forever to write this because I keep switching between webpages/ going downstairs to the kitchen, etc.) A psychologist has said that I am both idiosyncratic and that there is nothing that he can to help me. So I want to ask you /bb/ would you rather choose to be emotionally dead, or to be a scatterbrain manic depressant.
OP, if you dn't already live there, move to Australia. Go to a top level doc/shrink. He'll send you to the Black Dog Institute.If that fails, nothing else will save you.
Dude, OP, sounds like you just have a shitty situation right now. I bet if you give it a few years and you're out on your own living your own life doing what makes you happy you won't feel the way you do.Oh hey, I just spoke very wisely toward my own problems. Thanks.
Dude, OP, sounds like you just have a shitty situation right now. I bet if you give it a few years and you're out on your own living your own life doing what makes you happy you won't feel the way you do.
Oh hey, I just spoke very wisely toward my own problems. Thanks.
>>74060Apathy sucks if you want to be productive, dude. Sure you don't feel anything be it good or bad, but unfortunately that means that you lose any sort of motivation and getting any work done becomes very difficult. Apathy is fine if all you want to do is lie around and smoke weed.
>>74060
Apathy sucks if you want to be productive, dude. Sure you don't feel anything be it good or bad, but unfortunately that means that you lose any sort of motivation and getting any work done becomes very difficult. Apathy is fine if all you want to do is lie around and smoke weed.
>>74194>you lose any sort of motivation and getting any work done becomes very difficultYou don't have to tell me, I already lost all motivation last summer. Since then I was attending to hi'school and sleeping/reading novels and not giving a fuck about teachers complaining about it. Since February I stopped attending for I was bored. I'm just sitting around and I'm don't give a fuck about drugs.But when I have that sudden rush of passivity and boredom that physically hurts, I want to end it, and I'm willing to do something about it. Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>74194
>you lose any sort of motivation and getting any work done becomes very difficult
You don't have to tell me, I already lost all motivation last summer. Since then I was attending to hi'school and sleeping/reading novels and not giving a fuck about teachers complaining about it. Since February I stopped attending for I was bored. I'm just sitting around and I'm don't give a fuck about drugs.But when I have that sudden rush of passivity and boredom that physically hurts, I want to end it, and I'm willing to do something about it.
>>74212Apathy is nice and all, but once you realize that society more or less requires you to at least pretend to care, it gets old, fast. From my experience, most people see desirelessness as something negative, and see depersonalization/derealization as mental disorders.About a year ago I almost managed to completely eliminate my sense reality and self-existence, but right before I stopped thinking entirely I was forced back into the 'normal' world where people are supposed to have feelings and opinions about everything. When people ask me whether I want something or not, or what I feel about a situation, all I can do is lie. The only real feelings I've gotten back are extreme depression and anxiety. My sole motivation is the knowledge that the alternative, homelessness and destitution, would make me even more miserable.
>>74212Apathy is nice and all, but once you realize that society more or less requires you to at least pretend to care, it gets old, fast. From my experience, most people see desirelessness as something negative, and see depersonalization/derealization as mental disorders.
About a year ago I almost managed to completely eliminate my sense reality and self-existence, but right before I stopped thinking entirely I was forced back into the 'normal' world where people are supposed to have feelings and opinions about everything. When people ask me whether I want something or not, or what I feel about a situation, all I can do is lie. The only real feelings I've gotten back are extreme depression and anxiety. My sole motivation is the knowledge that the alternative, homelessness and destitution, would make me even more miserable.
Am I the only person who's never had a significant other?I also think I never will really be loved...
Am I the only person who's never had a significant other?
I also think I never will really be loved...
no ive never had one either
reporting in
you will be loved, and it will be beautiful.
I can promise you a good future.I promise you will be loved by many.Don't hate me if I can't keep my promise
I've kinda had one. But was really more of a highschool summer flame. Lasted a month. So long ago.
/bb/I just realised I have no idea how to get a girl into bed.Guide me.
>>74181I think you should go for the love android
>>74163Bullshit. If you're a chode before you get money, you're just a chode with money once you get it. You'll have this cool guy image to live up to that you won't have the confidence to pull off. Unless the journey to making money changes your entire way of thinking and gives you experience trying to get girls into bed, it won't do anything for your game.Of course, you can pay for prostitutes with money, and that includes girls who only care about money and will have sex with you in order to live in a nice house, drive a nice car, and buy nice things with your money. Comment too long. Click here to view the full text.
>>74163Bullshit. If you're a chode before you get money, you're just a chode with money once you get it. You'll have this cool guy image to live up to that you won't have the confidence to pull off. Unless the journey to making money changes your entire way of thinking and gives you experience trying to get girls into bed, it won't do anything for your game.
Of course, you can pay for prostitutes with money, and that includes girls who only care about money and will have sex with you in order to live in a nice house, drive a nice car, and buy nice things with your money.
>>74187seriously listen to this guy, average guys have to pound their pride into the ground before they start succeeding in this arena
>>74187
seriously listen to this guy, average guys have to pound their pride into the ground before they start succeeding in this arena
>>74187but money do helps. Like, when you're with a girl, and you have nothing to talk (it happens sometimes) you can just go watch a movie or to the arcade, but if you don't have a penny, what are you gonna do? Just stand right there realizing how bored is she?
Did someobdy say LOVE-ANDROID?!
i feel absolutely terrible, i keepcutting my arm, i want to shoot myself but i dont have a gun
stop being a faggot that might help
>>74081ok, thank you
i can only send good vibes.details.